QUOTE (aquinn21 @ Oct 22 2003, 08:39 AM)
How about choosing not to be a member of sites that threaten to delete you for such things?
Now, I do charge a small fee, but that applies to only targeted search emails, which are clearly marked. If a search link is sent to the entire list, then there would be no fee for members from "non-friendly" search countries. I think if a site is expecting you to pay "extra attention" to regular mails and not search with those links, then there's a problem.
Plus, some sites don't even use the targeted categories at all. I got a few complaints recently for even suggesting that I'd use targeted emails for anything but search...

So, just be aware of how the site works, and don't expect them to all work the same way.
Funny, everytime I think about this subject I think "I can't imagine NOT searching for PenniesByEmail" a site which I believe sends all search links to all countries? I certainly hope no one is getting mad at Mary and Sandra - their sites have always worked that way!
- Alex

yup (and thank you Alex

We try to select search engines that have the widest possible countries allowed as well, never demand anyone search and thankfully so many of you do

Being cac converted means a great many of our members never filled out interest, and search was added only in the past few months. Until recently we had ... hmm 10 ? people with search as an interest.
Myself if i am not in the mood (or have time) to search, i just don't click those links. Never seemed like a huge deal to me really. Only times i get annoyed is NOT with the webmaster but with search engines who seem to not understand that aol assigns very few ips and get the "only 3 searches per ip per day" idiocy comes up when i have not searched on that engine in days. And ocassionally with people who send in ads that demand and threaten, especially if they try and make it look an ad is from us.