Please can you all take a look at tis topic?

http://www.getpaidforum.com/forums/index.p...ST&f=12&t=55986

Thanks

What do you want me to say....... life sucks. We all have our problems, I know I have mine and I am not asking anything of anybody. I am sorry for what happened to her, but there is nothing I can do about it. I see so many requests for donations, it's just like the beggars in the streets I see every day, I don't give to them either.

I know this sounds hard, maybe harder than I mean, but that's what life did to me.

Letme first say that this isn't an attack, so plz don't take this out of context,however, while yes there are beggers on the street and online, true... I have given proberly more than I should... as well as most.... however, you get out of life what you put into it...so I take it since u feel this way, you most likely have only put out negitive so therefore you will only get that in return...while sympathyuis appreciated, in this case if u would actually read the message it isn't "begging" for donations it is offering ads ran for "X" amount in efforts to help someone, not to donate. Hmmmmm... there's an idea....lol. Look all i'm saying is with a harsh attitude such as you just shown, while being because of whatever reasons, thats an excuse just not to help out someone else. Compassion is the key to opening the door for the time later on for you to recieve help ... for if u shown none now, how can u even think u should deserve it later? Do things because u want to,not b/c of having too.... believe me what goes around does come around...

I understand what you say and some time ago I believed that too. But I have been scammed out of a lot of money and I do mean a lot and it cost me my business and all the savings I had to avoid bancruptcy. In the meantime I fell ill and almost lost my life and I had a death in the family. All that happened last year. Almost too much for 1 person to take.
And I am really a very sweet person who never harmed anybody or mistreated anybody. Bad things happen to good people.
When I was 20 I thought life was fun, now that I am 30 I know that isn't true.

I guess I am just taking it all a bit too harsh today.

Sorry, I reacted a bit too fast and too straight from the heart.

This is right to the point. I'm not asking for donations just buy an ad at lazymails but pay Carlin from goodkarmapaidmail. I'm trying to help the best way i can. Another friend of me brought me in contact with someone who can give same legal aid i hope. I myself are from the Netherlands and i don't have another way to help her. We all experience bad times i had a bad year also but that doesn't prefend me from helping someone.

bad things happen to good people & good things happen to bad people. life is NOT fair and no one promised us that it would be !
i try to help others when i can, and i've always had good results from it - usually just when i need it the most !!

i think this is a very kind offer from a wonderful and caring webmaster who runs a great site !! and yes, i bought an ad ! i've had great results advertising with him !!! for all those reading this, you should consider buying one too -- but only if you want your downlines to increase !

oh, one little thing i would like to add to this post ! jacco happens to be the ONLY webmaster that i saw send out a prayer for tylia (dana's daughter), instead of searches.... which do you think did the most good ???

the searches

Money doesn't get anyone better, doctors do but still you need hope, compasion and support to heal. As Dana said hereself they didn't need the money from the searches because she lives in Canada and all the bills from the hospitals are taken care of by insurance and all. If somebody is sick and i give them a $100 do they feel better? Or do they feel better when i show i care trough a hug, a prayer(if you are religious) or simply a kind word?
you tell me

Prayers do HELP and you do NOT need to be religiouse to see the truth in that. If it is someones time to go they are going to go no matter what, but if it is not the power of prayer (and it has been tried out by dr`s all over the world, get the book the central park jogger and read about the research into prayer and dr`s), seems to make people heal faster, better spirits and those peole may not even believe in prayer! I am saying a prayer for her and even tho I am out of work due to a injury, car-less and have medical bills piling up like crazy, I am going to go donate some money (and heck I even get a free ad and some free ptc`s outta this, maybe I can make a little money while doing a good dead, there is nothing wrong with this ) God Bless you lazymails for caring Good luck Carlin hugssssssss

Thank you for your response to this (and you too, Jacco) !! Both of you said it very well. I wish someone would ask Dana which she thought did the most good for her daughter. Personally, i've said a prayer myself for 'eurofreecash' ! And you'll get a good response to your ad !! If it's for something i can join, i know one referral you'll get !!!

Can we possibly get updates to how much is being sent? I love to see how people pull together when someone needs us , it is a reminder that``most`` people are good and caring (lazymails proves this beyond a doubt!)I am looking in on the people I am always in their downline and seeing if any of them are in lazy mails and I will be joining shortly, any site that is willing to help another person like this is well worth joining thanks again for caring hugsssssssssssss

jacco posted an update earlier in the chit-chat thread. total take was around $30.00 then. you will love lazymails !!! every email is like an easter-egg hunt ! he hides stuff in each email ! if you're the first to find it and respond, you just got more money !! i won a gold membership in this program on a search contest ! he is VERY GOOD to his members, which is why membership is climbing in this program at the rate of about 20 people per day... !

I do the updates at the chitchatfolder but it's about $35 now

even if people do not like donating money for a good cause the ads alone (a one cent ad to 950 people) is well worth 5.00 you cant find that anywhere! In the end no one loses, come on poeple do some advertising! Its a great deal and your helping someone , it cant get any better then that hugssss to all

lol

i kinda agree

im not really religious but i think its really hipocritical and absurd that people only turn to god in a time of need the rest of the time thier doing as they please

[quote=Billytallent,Jun 8 2003, 09:30 AM][QUOTE=eurofreecash,Jun 7 2003, 09:06 PM[/QUOTE]
lol

i kinda agree

im not really religious but i think its really hipocritical and absurd that people only turn to god in a time of need the rest of the time thier doing as they please[/quote]
First of all I dont ``only `` turn to God when in need or when someone else is in need, I thnak God every day for being alive! Even tho things are bad right now I look around and know they are worse for others then for me and I pray for them! I truely believe in the power of prayer, how could the searches help Danas daughter when they didnt need money for the hostpital (in Canada it is free) they needed prayers (or for people that dont believe, good thoughts) because money wasnt the issue.I know some people do not believe and that is their buiseness but to say that all we [pray for is when in need, I am sorry but for me that is not correct. I am not perfect as no one is and sure I do things I shouldnt, we all do that is why God (or whatever you believe) gave us a will, he wants us to do things for him willingly and in order to do that we also do thigns we arent supposed to do because we are human but we have to try and do good for others because it is the right thing to do and it makes you feel good inside to help others.
I not only prayed for this person whos husband left her, I also sent money because I feel she needs both, please tell me how that is being a hipocritic?

[quote=ruhappytoseeme,Jun 8 2003, 09:41 AM][QUOTE=Billytallent,Jun 8 2003, 09:30 AM][QUOTE=eurofreecash,Jun 7 2003, 09:06 PM[/QUOTE]
lol

i kinda agree

im not really religious but i think its really hipocritical and absurd that people only turn to god in a time of need the rest of the time thier doing as they please[/QUOTE]
First of all I dont ``only `` turn to God when in need or when someone else is in need, I thnak God every day for being alive! Even tho things are bad right now I look around and know they are worse for others then for me and I pray for them! I truely believe in the power of prayer, how could the searches help Danas daughter when they didnt need money for the hostpital (in Canada it is free) they needed prayers (or for people that dont believe, good thoughts) because money wasnt the issue.I know some people do not believe and that is their buiseness but to say that all we [pray for is when in need, I am sorry but for me that is not correct. I am not perfect as no one is and sure I do things I shouldnt, we all do that is why God (or whatever you believe) gave us a will, he wants us to do things for him willingly and in order to do that we also do thigns we arent supposed to do because we are human but we have to try and do good for others because it is the right thing to do and it makes you feel good inside to help others.
I not only prayed for this person whos husband left her, I also sent money because I feel she needs both, please tell me how that is being a hipocritic?[/quote]
did i say you read it i was making a general statement

lol

well considering only 2 people mentioned that we believed in prayer I guess I thought you were directing it at me and her, sorry, maybe I misunderstood you. I do know a lot of people like that tho, who go to church regularly and yet turn their noses up to people and never forgive people so I guess I know where you are comming from, But in the end you get what you give I believe so I try and be nice and understanding and help people ``if`` I can (and animals, dont get me started on my ferrets I rescued LOL) Doesnt matter if your religiouse or not , helping people is the same for everyone I would think

well, back to the matter at hand, i just made a small donation. didn't have much after getting that gold at PBE, but maybe my funds will increase there to help others later.

I want to thank everybody who bougt advertising and in that way Supported Carlin. We or upto $40.

And why are some people always attacking the religious people? I'm not saying we are perfect but most of us do care about all of GOD's creations. And remember that a lot of the welfare, healtcare and aidorganisations are founded by religious organisation(and not just christians)

That isnt bad for one day Way more then we can make in a ptc site in one day hehehe Keeping carlin in my prayers , hugsssssssss

We are up to $55 so going the right way and the loan so we need about $60 bucks t keep her save.
I have to say well done gpf-members!!!!!!

Thank you

hey jacco ! here's an idea for you ! take all of my earnings from lazymails and send them to carlin. please ?? and thank you !! cheri

Sure cheryl, I'll do it right away!!

thank you very much jacco !! you are very kind.... and i just love you to death for it !!!

I feel bad for her but I can't donate what I don't have. Well, hopefully we all learn a lesson from her that we should never trust man. They are pigs!

LOL

women arent much better

Thanks a lot,
Am i tring to help somebody and suddenly i am a pig

BTW even compasion shows her that people care

But you got to love them

all men and all women are NOT pigs !!! pigs are pigs !!! they go 'oink, oink ' !!!
there are good and bad people everywhere in this world. if you live long enough, you are gonna meet some of both. it's just a fact of life !!! personally i think the good people in this world by far out number the bad !! and i will continue to feel that way until someone can prove me wrong !!!

I think you are absolutily right. nothing to add!!!!!

well said and I totally agree! I have met horrible ppeople of both sexes and every color, but then again I have met wodnerful people of every sex and color! Yes sometiems we make a bad judgement call when we get into a relation ship but we should never put everyone of that sex into that catagory because of one bad seed! Look at when a very sad tragedy happens (like 9-11) every sex, color, denomination all came together to help! There is good in most people, dont judge everyone by one persons bad deed.
hugs allllllll

ya know something ??? you are quickly becoming one of my favorite people !!

[quote=cherylwaldrop,Jun 9 2003, 08:45 AM][/QUOTE]
ya know something ??? you are quickly becoming one of my favorite people !!

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LOL that was the same thing I was thinking of you hugssssssss

well, you know what they say about 'great minds think alike !!!'
hugs to you too !!!

Hi all, you are right pigs do go oink oink. There is good in all people. People are different than their actions. What he did was a terrible thing yet there is still good in him somewhere and he will have to live with what he has done. Just like any other person who makes a bad judgement and hurts others, especially their family who loves them. I want to thank all of you for your kindness and support. I never knew what wonderful people there are out there who care and support you when things are tough. I thank all of you not only the ones who could help financially but the people who have shared kind words and thoughts for me and my boys too.

Take Care All!!

Like i said Carlin, people care and don't judge you for what someone else has done.

Carlin - you are more than welcome !! I just know that everything will work out for you....
Also, I would like to thank Raell of MardiGrasCash for buying me an ad at LazyMails for donating my earnings to you !!

And don't forget that they get 1000 bannerimp's at mardigras if they buy the advertising at lazymails or just donate!!!

sorry i forgot to mention that !! you two have my vote for 'most caring webmaster/webmistress of all time' !!! love you both !!!

Now you make me blush again

i just LOVE it when i can do that !!

lazy mails and madigras both won me over with their generousity! I know belong to both programs I know to some people all that matters is the money, but for me, a caring real person at the other end meand a ton more to me! Sure I would love to get rich (cough cough) but being realistic here, ok so Im happy with a hundred a month as a extra income (if I make that much LOL more like 30 to 50) but wheh I see w/m`s that truely care for another human being I see a site I want to belong to!

um please excuse me, back got much worse and the pain meds and sleeping thing the dr gave me today I am a mess, my typing may not make sence and if it doesnt I will come back in the morning and edit it got me all looney on meds but guess what? THE PAIN IS STILL THERE!!

any way I just wanted you guys to know that being hoest and so giving puts you up in the top ten gptr sites along with gypsydad, pmi and a few others I truely love Thanks for caring and I hope the money comes in FAST.

Good luck carlin, I am praying for your family (when I am not medicatedaltho I guess God would understadn me either way LOL)


Id like to as everyone here for a favor, I know it really isnt the place but I see some very caring people here and thought I might as well try, could you guys please pray for me and my family? My backs getting worse and worse, my 13 yr old daughter has a lump in her breast (being looked at) and if you like animals please keep my ferret angel in your prayers, she needs a operation and I dont think shes gonna make it but hey prayers can do wonders thanks! Hugsssssssssssss to all and good luck in everything you do!

Absolutly right.

To me if you believe everyone is a pig or no good...Then you dont have self confidance in yourself. There were lots of times I wanted to say "the heck with all women" because I've been cheated on, dumped on, told I was ugly, laughed at.

but none of that has stopped me from meeting others. I dont blame every single person for another person's wrong. That is penalizing that person and not giving them a chance.

I dont know if this is allowed or not, but I'm not afraid to show myself to anyone. Anyone who cares to see a picture of who I am...please send an im and I'll gladly send the link to my picture. Also if anyone knows how to cut a picture down to where I can have it as an avatar...that would be appriated also.

Thank
Daniel

I tried my hardest to shrink a picture down and made it 95 x 95 pixels and it didnt work so I cant help but if someone posts I hope I see it.
I also have a picture of me on a ferret forum (along with all my fuzzbutts LOL) and I send that link to my friends so they can see me Some times it is nice to put a face to the typing isnt it?

There is always a place for this at least in my book.
I prayed for you and your daughter the prayer for the sick and for your ferret the prayer from saint hubertus.
I hope this helps

Fore you both because you care just send your pics to me and i'll cut and shrink them down for you .

I oink.

naaa..... i know you better than that anne !!!