Greg what on earth is wrong. Why do you have a sig and topic like this?

BTW.... i dont want to kill you.

Oh... (((DVD))) Share your problems with us, perhaps we can cheer you up

Edited: Don't want to kill you too

We all care about you Greg...

Greg... Nothing is more valuable than your life
Even if things might feel difficult... they always DO get better. If not right now, they will sooner or later

(((((Greg))))) Please let us help. You are a valuable person.

As you mey know I've moved to my oldest bro about 3 months ago. I thought he will help me a bit with my situation. Dunno continue school here in England or smth. For your information I've dropped high school after my mom died of cancer (god how stupid I was then) back to thema, from 3 months I'm sleeping on air-bed. And Im threated in house like an intruder by sister-in-law. BTW working on construction yard (edited hard work 10h/day) for ?35/day this is... I dont have words for it.

I'm not living im vegetating...

im telling this bulls... from day since I was born.

(((((((((Greg)))))))) We all go through really rough patches in life where it seems unbearable. Every one here can relate to many of the horrible things you're feeling. You are an awesome person and you will come through this stronger and wise. Please don't give up hope, you can make changes for the better in your life, it just may take a little time. We care about you and if you need to talk or vent, it's ok, that's what friends are for and you have good friends here. And the offer of a room in my basement and in my family still stands.

Yeah without a job, how long I can live? Time to live on street.

Greg Everyone gets down and has bad times. Exactly what is your sister in law saying to you. And have you talked to your brother about it?

everything I do, say is rubbishy by her and my bro? he's focking pussy.He have nthn to say. Do you think he gives me ?3.5/h? No it's his greedy wife....

(((( Greg )))) Don't lose all hope. Are you able to find a different job, so you could move out of your brother's house?

Of course I can move but I dont have enough money to rent even a flat. Work without experience?

Do you know anyone else there, besides your brother? Myabe you could get a roommate so you could afford a flat. I think lots of places you can find a labor job with no experience.

Chris says:
computers
Greg says:
yeah but I dont have experience
Greg says:
to gain experience I need school
Greg says:
to get school I need cash
Greg says:
to get cash I need work
Greg says:
to get work I need experience
Greg says:
and its a close circle

Greg, I know it may seem like an insurmountable thing, but it's not. Is there a school where you could take computer classes at night? You could work at construction during the day, go to class in the evenings. It's hard hard work to do both, but I think it's the only way you could get the education you need. Also, once you get into the school, usually they have internship programs, where they set you up with a job in the field you are studying, so you can get some relevant experience.

A plus of going to night school ~ you'd be home less, which means less time spent listening to your sister-in-law's nasty remarks.

((((( Greg ))))) I know you are having a hard time, but I know you can get thru it. I wish there was some way I could help.

It isn't really a closed circle. Every day brings more experience of some form. We have all had to start out at the bottom rung of the ladder and had to work up each rung sometimes slowly. Although it may seem like there is no gain, in reality there is. Just your time working in construction has enabled you to put the key terms that employers look for like "hard worker", "team player", "able to handle stress" "able to perform repetive tasks" on a job application.

Nikki is right about night school. Or maybe even finding a night job and going to school through the day. There are many schools that have field placements which give the experience you will need and sometimes they even turn into full time jobs. At the very least, you will find people who share your interests and goals. People who will appreciate you.

(((Greg)))

Always remember chit chat loves you Greg

I hope you'll feel better soon!

...Rick

Greg, I've been through times when all I could do was cry all day - and try to take care of 3 children with no money.

You will get through and you will be ok. It is not always easy and sometimes it seems to last forever.

You will learn how to cope and be able to use your experiences to help someone else later on.

There are options out there, even though they are not always easy to find.

Please, please hang in there. Come here to vent and let us help as much as we can.

You are loved by Chit Chat.

((((Greg)))) All will be well. We all go through tough times. You can always overcome the bad things in life. One day at a time.

Okey. I will still continue saying lies to myself. Cross fingers for me k?

I love ya guyz!

your Gregy

Greg ~ you have to believe in yourself for it to work. If you think you can't do it, you won't do it. Think positive.

Not lies, sweetie. Sometimes you just have to try thinking positive - even when it is the very, very hardest. Sometimes it is so hard to find the silver lining in the clouds. People can be cruel and it makes it much harder to cope. But remember - they are the ones with the problem, not you. You are a good person and we love you.

Awwww, Sweetie, I know you don't know me and I don't know you, but my heart goes out to you. I think it's safe to say most of us here have been down in the dumps so bad that we felt like we could die...it is the worst feeling, I know. I have hit rock-bottom in my life, to the point where when I look back now, I don't know how I lived through it and managed to hold on to sanity...well, MOST of my sanity! lol

I think everyone is right when they say you need to get out of that house that seems to be feeding you a lot of negativity. You don't need or deserve that! You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. Go after what you know will make you happy...take baby steps toward your goal. You'll see that you CAN change your reality, the power is all in your hands.

For now, you should consider going back to school. Can you do correspondence courses (where you get your assignments sent through the mail, and you do them on your own time)? That way you can work and do your schooling. If you are a youth, you may be able to find job placement programs. I remember when I was a kid, we had a program here in Canada called "Futures", where they paid us $250 every two weeks to go to school for 3 or 4 months. Then after "graduating" they would place us in a job where they pay half the wages and the employer pays half...if after the placement period the employer decides to keep you, great! If not, you at least picked up valuable work skills along the way. Maybe there's a similar program where you are...

Check out your local Employment Centre or Human Resources Centre. They should have many options for you, I hope!

Good luck and be strong!

We're here for you Greg. You may not feel positive about yourself and your life right now right now, those feelings are normal and it's ok to express them. Sometimes it's easier to set small reachable goals instead of one great big one that just seems soo hard to get to and so discouraging, suddenly you'll find that those little goals you accomplished have added up to a huge step towards where you want to be in life.

((((greg - dvd )))))



Please don?t loose all hope - trust me life isn't all bad.