I was wondering if the http://mysweetheartmail.com is a scam, because they never actually say the rate you have to reach to get your payout...

I believe it says on My Sweetheart's home page that payout is $70 -- but that's really irrelevant because with the way they undersell their ads, there is no possible way they can be making enough money to actually pay anyone.

Total scam. Don't waste your time on it. There are losts of low payout paying ptrs. You can find it out in members signature areas. Also check whether these sites pay or not from praises & appraisals.